random thoughts~

why do men always find excuses to cheat on their partner?
WHY??
just because you are unhappy with your marriage or relationship, you use that excuse to find someone else behind her back..?
why can't you just leave her/dump her/divorce her first and then go find someone new?
why must you do it while you are in a relationship??
you think that is forgivable?
and then when your partner/wife finds out about it, you blame her..
you'd say that she is not understanding, there is no spark or whatever reasons that you guys always come up with..
but then, when things do not go as what you have planned with your new someone, you want your ex-partner back..
and say something like you were the best gf/wife i've ever had, or you were the only who understood me, i have always loved you..
oh please...
and when she says no..you get mad..
you blame her again...
wtf??
you say women are complicated..i think MEN are complicated too..


p/s:i'm not saying all men are like that..just a few ;)
p/s/s:sorry for my grammar mistakes..i know there's a lot!